More than loss...

^{All I can think to pray today is that when the world sees me stumble or fall that you may also see the victory of Jesus over my life when I stand back up again.  Each time I'm knocked down I promise you I will get back up again, stronger in the belief that God will make it right. I don't care if I fall once or one million times. I've come to learn that a life of extreme limitless faith is one that also invites Satan to knock you down, but let me profess that my God is bigger than the fall. He fought the long and weary battle for my soul, carried me out of my ignorance and changed my hardened heart. I've seen what he's taken me through, and I know where He will deliver me to. He has given me His precious and loving son and the Holy Spirit as a deposit until he comes back for me. I refuse to let Satan steal the joy that fills my life because of my Deliverer, the Prince of Peace, the Mighty God. I know that one day I will hold another child in my arms. I refuse to believe that I won't. I reject the doubt.} 

See my faith and see my God. He is mighty and unbreakable.

Love to all...

one of the daughters of the Most-High God.

^2-4Consider it a sheer gift, friends, when tests and challenges come at you from all sides. You know that under pressure, your faith-life is forced into the open and shows its true colors. So don't try to get out of anything prematurely. Let it do its work so you become mature and well-developed, not deficient in any way.

 ^5-8If you don't know what you're doing, pray to the Father. He loves to help. You'll get his help, and won't be condescended to when you ask for it. Ask boldly, believingly, without a second thought. People who "worry their prayers" are like wind-whipped waves. Don't think you're going to get anything from the Master that way, adrift at sea, keeping all your options open. 1 James 1:2-8 (the Message)

1 Peter 1 (The Message)

 ^1-2I, Peter, am an apostle on assignment by Jesus, the Messiah, writing to exiles scattered to the four winds. Not one is missing, not one forgotten. God the Father has his eye on each of you, and has determined by the work of the Spirit to keep you obedient through the sacrifice of Jesus. May everything good from God be yours!

A New Life

 ^3-5What a God we have! And how fortunate we are to have him, this Father of our Master Jesus! Because Jesus was raised from the dead, we've been given a brand-new life and have everything to live for, including a future in heaven—and the future starts now! God is keeping careful watch over us and the future. The Day is coming when you'll have it all—life healed and whole.

 ^6-7I know how great this makes you feel, even though you have to put up with every kind of aggravation in the meantime. Pure gold put in the fire comes out of it proved pure; genuine faith put through this suffering comes out proved genuine. When Jesus wraps this all up, it's your faith, not your gold, that God will have on display as evidence of his victory.

 ^8-9You never saw him, yet you love him. You still don't see him, yet you trust him—with laughter and singing. Because you kept on believing, you'll get what you're looking forward to: total salvation.

 ^10-12The prophets who told us this was coming asked a lot of questions about this gift of life God was preparing. The Messiah's Spirit let them in on some of it—that the Messiah would experience suffering, followed by glory. They clamored to know who and when. All they were told was that they were serving you, you who by orders from heaven have now heard for yourselves—through the Holy Spirit—the Message of those prophecies fulfilled. Do you realize how fortunate you are? Angels would have given anything to be in on this!

A Future in God

 ^13-16So roll up your sleeves, put your mind in gear, be totally ready to receive the gift that's coming when Jesus arrives. Don't lazily slip back into those old grooves of evil, doing just what you feel like doing. You didn't know any better then; you do now. As obedient children, let yourselves be pulled into a way of life shaped by God's life, a life energetic and blazing with holiness. God said, "I am holy; you be holy."

 ¹⁷You call out to God for help and he helps—he's a good Father that way. But don't forget, he's also a responsible Father, and won't let you get by with sloppy living.

 ^18-21Your life is a journey you must travel with a deep consciousness of God. It cost God plenty to get you out of that dead-end, empty-headed life you grew up in. He paid with Christ's sacred blood, you know. He died like an unblemished, sacrificial lamb. And this was no afterthought. Even though it has only lately—at the end of the ages—become public knowledge, God always knew he was going to do this for you. It's because of this sacrificed Messiah, whom God then raised from the dead and glorified, that you trust God, that you know you have a future in God.

 ^22-25Now that you've cleaned up your lives by following the truth, love one another as if your lives depended on it. Your new life is not like your old life. Your old birth came from mortal sperm; your new birth comes from God's living Word. Just think: a life conceived by God himself! 

Joy, Happiness, Negativity and Facebook.

Do you know the difference between joy and happiness? There's a difference. Read on to find out what it is! 

I love facebook. It is a really awesome way for me to keep up with all my friends and family who live far away, and for a mom who is largely stuck in the house it provides me a way to interact with the outside world. It can be fun, funny, encouraging and uplifting. Yes, sometimes it sure can. But mostly (unfortunately) facebook comes with a price... you get a very powerful and unpleasant super power.  The power to read people's minds. It makes me impressed with some and disappointed in others. It makes me laugh at the inner comic in a lot of people (who knew quiet so-and-so was funny?) and shake my head with how quickly people can sink to a nasty level. 

It can infect people faster than a walk through a 19th century tuberculosis ward. If it plants the infectious negativity seed in your heart, it can root a plant that flowers with anger, insensitivity, meanness, judgement, hopelessness, discontent, and rudeness. With the click of a mouse not only can you post a snarky wall post about your neighbor, but you can post a plethora of negative news stories from various websites. You can post a song about how much life sucks. Before long you have dozens of "likes" on one of these things from people who feel the same way. 

You can announce "I'm doing some major cleaning of my friends list, some of you people are out of here!" and then maybe five-ten minutes later post, "well if you can read this post you made the cut! You're still my friend!" ... wow... what a wonderful way to either make people beg for your friendship or feel really bad when you delete them. 

You can vent your emotion so easily... 

Bad day at work? "MY BOSS IS FROM HELL!" 

Breakup with your girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse: "I can do better than you dirtbag!" (It's really hard for me to write something nastier, bear with me, but you know--- you have read something along those lines)

Or ...no need to raise your hand, have you ever read (or posted) : "AGH! I just spilled a Wendy's frosty on my crotch! FML!" (Forget my life... the somewhat kinder sister of what most people mean, which is F*** my life!) So you're saying your life is worthless.  

How many times a day do we read: I hate __________. 

Not clear enough? Breathe easy--you always have the option of posting a nasty picture or sign. 

One of my favorite Facebook techniques is the following: a status that simply says " :( " Obviously you're upset...am I supposed to ask? Am I not supposed to ask? Am I supposed to like this? What this says to me is pay attention to me please but be utterly confused as to what I mean. Usually what I post back is this: :) But it isn't long before someone has posted below me: What's wrong? and soon it comes out --- everything from I'm out of milk to I got into a car accident... but I definitely need to air this in front of everyone. I'm not sure how I feel about this but since I have the forum, let me just ask... can we get together and agree to elaborate or just hold it in?

Facebook can give you the illusion those profiles aren't connected to real people. It makes it easy for us to vent. Here's the problem with venting... when you vent to someone like a close friend or a husband, most of the time they can see the whole picture (a rough day, a series of rough days, striking out time and time again) on Facebook people don't see that. What we see is: "Going to visit my Grandma!" and later, "My family is so messed up! I hate them!" Pretty soon distant great-aunt Sally sees this and gets upset and calls Grandma and says, "Hey, Marcy just posted on Facebook that she hates you!" Maybe what really happened was that drunk Uncle Billy came and did something silly and it was really aggravating and made you mad, but what we all just saw was Marcy hates Grandma. That seed of negativity blossomed into anger which got picked and placed in the vase of drama. 

Emotion is real. It's intense, it gets the better of us. Maybe it's only a flash and in a few minutes, hours, days, it's over. It's easy to move on. But when it's put on display in the forum of Facebook, guess what, it's there to be referenced for all eternity. Even if you delete it because we all have that sweet print screen function and pretty soon your private thoughts are being laughed at by millions on Failbook, and now your negativity has just reached exponential levels.

I'm not trying to single any one person out at all... I'm not trying to anger someone.... but I am trying to point out that your powers can be used for evil OR for good. 

This is my resolution... From this day forward I'm not posting anything negative. My thoughts, no matter it be in what I like or what I say, will be rephrased to show the positive. Even if I'm disappointed or angry. Instead of venting, I will simply say, "wow today was really discouraging, prayers please." If my emotion ever specifically involves another person (especially if I am friends with them on Facebook) I am not going to post it unless it's positive. Period. No exceptions. 

I will keep my snarkiness to a minimum. 

I will not post articles or thoughts on politics (or comment or like others thoughts)... it's just annoying to those who don't agree with my opinions, it's confusing for those who don't share my moral beliefs, and it's just boring to a lot of people.  

I am not going to post any song, video, or picture that is negative. 

I'm not going to make any broad generalizations--- because as soon as you make a generalization about restless leg syndrome, one of your friends for sure will be hurt because they, too, suffer from RLS. 

I'm not going to criticize others, reprimand others or argue with others on Facebook. If I have a problem, I'm going to be woman enough to go see that person face to face and make it right. 

I'm not going to post an article that can lead to people assessing "the problem of the world today" or "the problem with this generation or that generation" .... why? because your opinion will be offensive to someone. I guarantee it. 

I'm going to make my wall a positive place, a place of encouragement. 

Examine your own profile, I challenge you... are you guilty of perpetuating a negative feeling? I am sometimes. Are you guilty of using facebook for just fluff? (Justin Bieber is so hot!) There's nothing wrong with fluff, but what if we used it to achieve a purpose?

My friends Facebook can be a really powerful tool for a Christian (or just a positive person for that matter). With one click you can plant a seed of positivity. One that can bloom into thankfulness, grace, joy, kindness, peace, encouragement, comfort, love, strength. 

Now... I know I cannot please everyone, but I'm going to strive to be true to God. As a Christian I think a lot of people force this idea of "you have to change the world!" on you. First of all, the one who came to change the world has been and gone and risen (and it wasn't me!). His name is Jesus btw, if you want to know more, see me. ;) I would like to think of myself as a tiny little tile on the mosaic of His movement. I am not the source of anyone's faith. I am a tiny tile on the mosaic of a lot of people's faith.

Happiness is a good, fleeting feeling. Joy is a perpetual emotion. One comes from something light and momentary, one comes from the one above (I believe, anyway).  The more we find ways to uplift each other, the more people know the nature of God. God is not out to zap people with lightning bolts... God is at the very core joy. God is love.

favorite things part 1! (for the ladies or for clueless husbands who buy for the ladies)

It's almost the Holiday season, and most certainly, it is the time of the year when you begin your Christmas shopping. I came across an article on Oprah's favorite things... I always like to peruse what her selections are and this year I was super disappointed. Mostly because I can't really afford anything on the list (265 dollars for pajamas? 458 dollars for a robe? a robe?!)  So I'm making my own list, with things within my budget... and if they're within my budget they are probably within yours. So enjoy! And remember, by following this list, you'll also be as cool as this chick (or lame, you know, either/or).

A Beautiful Life Hair- Honey do Shampoo ($30 set)

For: Your sister, your aunt, your wife, your girlfriend, your mom...anyone who is a sucker for retro animal packaging (like me) and a yummy honey scent. And it's sulfate free, guaranteed to keep your un-natural, but still fabulous, flaming red hair bright. Plus it's 30 dollars, so to me that qualifies this as a gift...not a stocking stuffer. ;)

Forever 21's Fuzzy Sequined Slippers - $6.80

For: Any woman whose feet are perpetually cold, like mine. 

These slippers are on my feet right now and I wear them all day everyday while I am in the house. They are warm, ultra soft and the sequins are super cute. Plus, they are machine washable which is a plus when your kids toss one in the toilet. Great stocking stuffer! 

Puff the Magic Dragon Bookends ($39, Barnes and Noble)

For: Anyone who likes kitschy/campy/totally awesome decor in their home. Puff the Magic Dragon enthusiasts.

I love these, wouldn't they look awesome on your bookshelf? I think so. Jackie Paper is on the other side too!  

Silver Personalized Birthstone Necklace - ($29-35 Pottery Barn Kids)

For: Moms with impeccable taste. 

Husbands, sons, daughters... this is an investment piece. Meaning, you buy the components separately. I know, I don't really love that either. But, it is a really tasteful, elegant piece of jewelry. Silver initial pendants (of her kids) and birthstone charms takes this beyond "some necklace" and gives it meaning. She'll love it. 

Rocky Top Soap ($6 per bar) 

For: Women who want a great skincare product 

Unscented, all natural, handmade soaps manufactured by a bearded man from Maine (this is how I know it's legit). I love bar soap, it's the only thing that keeps my skin soft, clear (no zits), and it's actually better for you (bacteria grows in your shower gel bottle, no joke). This will leave your skin softer than it's ever been, which is important if you live in Arizona or just for the winter months. I love the Pumpkin and Carrot soaps, but there is a ton of choices. 

Jean Arthur Comedy Collection - ($34.99) 

For: All Women, Everywhere. 

Are you sick of seeing half-naked actresses getting by on their looks? Escape to a time when talent was necessary and fall in love with Jean. Jean is one of my top five favorite actresses (Jean Arthur, Irene Dunne, Barbara Stanwyck, Rosalind Russell, Lucille Ball). I fell in love with her after watching her performance in Mr. Smith Goes to Washington and You Can't Take it With You. Show your woman that you can make an intelligent gift choice this year. These movies are a great starter to introduce her to one of the greatest actresses of all time. 

Cath Kidston Sewing Baskets and Travel kits ($32-80)

For: the crafter! 

I am an enthusiastic crocheter myself, but for a moment let me just talk about the wonder that is Cath Kidston. I love everything in the store. Everything. Buy me anything from there, down to the wallpaper and I will be guaranteed to love you for life. Why? Cath Kidston is the perfect amount of homespun, whimsy, and retro. All things that are basically synonyms for my name. These sewing baskets are great, but I also love the kits. Why? Because I want to see all women get in touch with their inner crocheter.

Classically Cool Sunglasses ($11.99)

For: Anyone who wants to rock a look like this blogger.

These are my exact sunglasses... except mine are lavender (and kind of cooler!) but nonetheless, I love these!